Actual Circumstances in Mystic Pop Up Bar Part 2

ANNYEONG!

This is Charm from #DAOfamily

g IN for the part 2 of my

3-part blog about actual

circumstances in Mystic Pop

Up Bar.

If you haven't read of the Part 1,

please click here because this is

the continuation.

The drama is still ongoing, and

it's on its 8th episode. In the

part 1, I blogged about the first

4 episodes where there are also

4 people that our trio helped

settle their grudges, and

unfinished business.

Now, it will tackle about another

4 relatable experiences in the

5th-8th episode.

Let me first give you a small

detail about the drama.

:warning: WARNING! Spoilers ahead. :warning:

:warning: Read at your own risk. :warning:

Long blog ahead.

Episode 5 is about the process

of losing the ones we love.

A spirit is lurking, and they need

to apprehend it before it will bring

harm to everyone.

Then, there's this man who came

to the pop up bar. Weol Ju made

dumplings for him, amd he said

that he loves dumplings because

his wife use to cook it for him,

and his mother love his wife's

shrimp dumplings.

Actually, her shrimp dumplings

were the ones that his mother

ate before she died from an

illness, and it's obvious that he's

still grieving from his mother's

death. At the moment, his wife's

on a special trip.

Meanwhile, they located where

the spirit is lurking, and they

found out it's on the man's house.

They thought it's his mother, who

has some unfinished business,

still lurking around the man's house.

It turned out that the spirit is not

the man's mother, but his wife.

Apparently, the man is suffering

from dementia, and he forgot that

his wife died from a car accident.

The car accident where he lend his

wife his car for the special trip.

It seems to me that, he's mind is

stuck to what happened before

his wife died. His mother just died

from an illness, then his wife

followed.

He's so deep in grief because it's

like a double whammy in his

emotions, that he's mind chose to

be stuck in that moment of his life

where his wife was still alive.

He also felt responsible to what

happened on his wife. If only he

went with her on that trip, she

would not have died.

When we loose someone or

experience something that makes

us sad, we undergo the stages of

grief, and the man did not reach

the last stage which is the

acceptance. Because of that, his

dementia worsened.

Thay is why, his wife's spirit is still

lingering around him because she

wanted to watch over him, knowing

that he's alone and always forgetful.

Also, she wanted him to accept that

she's already gone, and there's no

use feeling guilty over what happened

to her because she lived a happy life

with him.

Oftentimes, we fall into grief over the

people we loss, but we should also

learn to accept things as it is,

because that's the nature of life.

We must move on with our lives

because if we dwell into it too much,

we will loose ourselves in the well

of despair.

This is a story of a married woman who desperate wants to have a child.

She unknowingly spilled her guts to Kang Bae regarding her journey with her husbamd to pregnancy. Because she wanted to have a child because she can see that her husband loves children, and her husband relented.

They went to a fertility clinic. Then, they conceived, but she had a miscarriage bought about by her clumsiness. She got devastated, and she wanted to try again.

They tried and tried, but to no avail, she could not get pregnant, and it's taking its toll on her and her marriage.

Thankfully, her husband is a very understanding, and ive, that even though she's always throwing tantrums on him.

Weol Ju decided to help her, so she stole a conception dream, and the couple finally got pregnant.

Nowadays, it is becoming very hard for married couple who badly want to have a baby to conceive.

Meanwhile, couples who do not want to have a baby, is not having a hard time to conceive.

Why? I don't know. Maybe because some things happen when you least expect it?

However, the issue here is that, all their money amd effort goes to something very precious like to conceive a child, but some people choose to abort their unborn children because they don't like the responsibility that goes with it.

It is sad, but it's really happening.

In here, the man is a gambler, and he's deep in debt because of that. He jas this kind of mentality that if he wins a lot of money, he will stop his gambling habits.

However, instead of winning, he gambled his way to a huge debt to loansharks, amd always asking his friend for money promising that if he win big this time, he will pay all his debts and stop.

That thing led him to his death which he blamed to his friend because he's the one to call the loansharks. He ran away, and got hit by a car.

Unbeknownst to him, that friend is the one who's paying his debt little by little to the loansharks. His friend just wante him to stop from gambling.

This man believe that in order to get easy money, one should gamble his way to riches. He thinks gambling as a shortcut for a beautiful life.

There are a lot of people who has this kind of mentality, and is easily lured with easy money that is why many people get scammed of their hard earned money, and properties because of thier greed to have more money.

However, in life, nothing comes easy. Everything that we want to have, we should work hard for it because it is more fulfilling when we can see the fruit of our blood, sweat, hard work, amd perseverance.

A woman who haunts her apartment due to a grudge brought about by misunderstanding.

Her spirit doesn't want to leave her unit because she's waiting for the deliveryman to knock on her door.

That woman, and the deliveryman was once in the beginning stage of dating, but a phone call led to a misunderstanding that was not resolved because of the sudden death of the woman.

That is why that woman doesn't want to cross yet because she wanted to settle her grudge.

You see, misunderstandings bring about conflicts. We have different point of views on things that is why people clash.

We hear something or say something that can lead to someone misunderstanding our situation or intent toward them to the point where we they say words that are hurtful toward the others.

Some are people who are closed minded that they don't want to hear reasons on things or situations.

There's also this thing called hearsay. We hear something from other people. Of course, that's an unofficial statement.

The things we hear from other people is not credible specially if we we're only leaning on one side of the coin, and some hearsays from other people has the 100% to none possibility that it's from a credible source.

Misunderstandings happen when we don't give the person we're against to a guilty beyond reasonable doubt attitude.

We must always meet halfway, and know the story of both parties to solve the misunderstandings because there's always a two sides on a coin.

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That's the end of the Part 2 of my

3-part blog on Actual Circumstances

in Mystic Pop Up Bar.

Please watch out for the Part 3 of

this blog a week after next week.

If you haven't read the Part 1 yet.

Please click here.

Thank you for reading.

This is Charm from #DAOfamily,

g out.

:four_leaf_clover: xoxo :four_leaf_clover:

*credits to google and dramabeans

for the photos. The edits are mine.