"You must be the change you wish to see in the world."

─━✶ 𝓐𝓫𝓸𝓾𝓽 𝓶𝓮 ✶━─

Hey there! You can call me Arya or Caty. It is not my real name, but a name I feel comfortable with online.

I am a cis woman who feels most comfortable with she/her pronouns.

I consider myself unlabeled sexuality wise, but to keep it simplistic– I just tell people I am bisexual, as that feels easiest to describe myself right now. I am completely fine with both genders- as long as I just like the person, I really don't care about anything else.

I personally do not believe in any sort of a God and I hope you respect that. I do not tolerate people who try to force their religion upon others.

I love learning languages! My biggest challenge at the moment is Turkish. I just can't seem to get the hang on it as fast as I would like. Overall I speak my native tongue, Dutch. I obviously also speak English. I've started learning Spanish recently, but I'd say I understand it pretty well. Because I am Dutch I automatically also understand a ton of German and quite a large amount of Afrikaans.

Another thing I really care about it my body. I am pretty much obsessed with the way I look. Hence why I (normally) am very mindful of what I eat. I also go to the gym for this reason.

I also love to dance, but I do not follow any classes– even though I would love to do so. Street dance and similar styles truly peaks my interest.

I've been drawing since I was a small child and I have never stopped. Drawing and doing art in general is a big ion of mine! I would love to share some pieces with you all, but I am currently in an extreme art block and way too busy with my life aside from the Internet. As an artist myself, I am also very much AGAINST the use of AI for creative expressions. It takes away jobs and people's uniqueness of their talents.

Currently I have also taken up poetry! I'll make sure to share some of my poems on here!

Gaming is also something I enjoy to do, but especially with friends. I often play with a good friend of mine. My most frequently played games are "The Sims 4", "Warframe", and "Cyberpunk" at the moment. I also play GTA5, Minecraft, Baldur's Gate and so on.. but again, mainly with my best friend. Alone or with people I am not that familiar with, I don't quite enjoy it as much.

I love making cute little gifts and crafts for the people I love. Doing such and doing acts of service is definitely my love language. When I really like someone, I show it without any shame. I'm also incredibly loyal to the people I genuiely love. Making them happy is very important to me. 𓆩♡𓆪

When I love, I love wayyyy too deep though :open_mouth: ‍ :dash: that is something I want to work on.

There are also some things I wish I could do and will learn eventually (hopefully).

One of those things is singing. I would love to be able to mesmerise others with my voice.

another thing is a very tricky one – poledancing. I sadly can't take any classes, nor do I have any room for a pole. But I've wanted to do this since I was a child actually! It requires a lot of strength and it looks so elegant in my opinion – despite it being a very sexualised dance style.

Of course learning languages is on this list. I'd love to master Turkish, Korean and Russian.

As silly as it may sound... My biggest dream is to become either a youtuber or any kind of content creator (that is not OF) where I coukd be an influencer. It seems like a fun way to gain money. I'd also love to become an architect, but sadly I have given up on that as of yet. Deg things is a huge interest of mine. As of now, I'll probably learn coding. I do hope I can chase my dream, though.. I've dreamed of being an architect since I was a small child. Preferably I dream of being unemployed with a good income, but hey, I gotta stay realistic. This is a job I'd most likely want most as I am very creative and love to design. The work pressure and the pay being too little for the workload + the amount of years it takes to become one, holds me off as of now.

My current interests aren't many, honestly. I enjoy the show Arcane a lot! My favourite characters are Jinx, Vi and Ekko. I also really love "Avatar: the last airbender"! Those are most likely my top 2 favourite shows

in my daily life I go to work. Way too much than I can handle, even though it is not full-time. I sadly am very prone to being burnt out because of my poor mental health.

I'll also start studying again very soon, which I honestly do not feel ready for at ALL.

For a "face reveal", please just go to my Instagram (@scm.vdh_). I will not be sending or sharing anything on here. I have pictures of myself posted there. My is public, so you can easily see. Please stop bothering me with that question.