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ᴘᴀʀᴇɴᴛs ғɪɢʜᴛɪɴɢ ɪs ᴛʜᴇ ʟᴀsᴛ ᴛʜɪɴɢ ᴡᴇ ᴀʟʟ ᴡᴀɴᴛ ᴛᴏ ʜᴀᴘᴘᴇɴ ɪɴ ᴇxᴀᴍ ᴅᴀʏs .

sᴏᴍᴇ ᴍᴀʏ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ᴀɴᴅ sᴏᴍᴇ ᴍᴀʏ ᴅᴏɴ'ᴛ ʜᴏᴡ ᴛᴏ ʀᴇsᴘᴏɴᴅ ᴡʜᴇɴ ᴛʜᴇɪʀ ᴘᴀʀᴇɴᴛs ᴀʀᴇ ғɪɢʜᴛɪɴɢ

ᴜɴғᴏʀᴛᴜɴᴀᴛᴇʟʏ ᴡᴇ ᴄᴀɴ'ᴛ ʀᴇᴀʟʟʏ sᴛᴏᴘ ᴏᴜʀ ᴘᴀʀᴇɴᴛs ғɪɢʜᴛɪɴɢ ʙᴜᴛ ᴀᴛ ʟᴇᴀsᴛ ᴡᴇ ᴄᴀɴ ᴛʀʏ ᴛᴏ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ᴛᴏ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ᴀɴᴅ ᴛᴇʟʟ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ʜᴏᴡ ɪᴛ ᴍᴀᴋᴇs ᴜs sᴛʀᴇssᴇᴅ

ʜᴏᴡᴇᴠᴇʀ ɪғ ʏᴏᴜ'ʀᴇ ғᴇᴇʟɪɴɢ sᴀᴅ, sᴄᴀʀᴇᴅ, ᴀɴxɪᴏᴜs, ᴏʀ ᴇᴠᴇɴ ᴀɴɢʀʏ ᴀʙᴏᴜᴛ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴘᴀʀᴇɴᴛs' ᴀʀɢᴜᴍᴇɴᴛs, ɪ ʜᴀᴠᴇ sᴏᴍᴇ ᴀᴅᴠɪᴄᴇ ᴏɴ ʜᴏᴡ ᴛᴏ ᴅᴇᴀʟ ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴛʜɪs ᴅɪғғɪᴄᴜʟᴛ sɪᴛᴜᴀᴛɪᴏɴ.

ᴅᴇᴀʟ ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴘᴀʀᴇɴᴛs ғɪɢʜᴛɪɴɢ-[C]ᴘᴀʀᴇɴᴛs ғɪɢʜᴛɪɴɢ ɪs ᴛʜᴇ ʟᴀsᴛ ᴛʜɪɴɢ ᴡᴇ ᴀʟʟ ᴡᴀɴᴛ ᴛᴏ ʜᴀᴘᴘᴇɴ ɪɴ ᴇxᴀᴍ ᴅᴀʏs .

[C]sᴏᴍᴇ ᴍᴀʏ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ᴀɴᴅ s

ᴛᴇʟʟ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ʜᴏᴡ ɪᴛ ᴍᴀᴋᴇs ʏᴏᴜ sᴛʀᴇssᴇᴅ . ᴛʜᴇʏ ᴍᴀʏ ᴛʜɪɴᴋ ʏᴏᴜ ᴅᴏɴ'ᴛ ʀᴇᴀʟʟʏ ᴄᴀʀᴇ ᴀʙᴏᴜᴛ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ғɪɢʜᴛɪɴɢ , ɪᴛ ᴡᴏɴ'ᴛ ᴀғғᴇᴄᴛ ʏᴏᴜ ᴏʀ ʏᴏᴜ ᴄᴀɴ'ᴛ ᴇᴠᴇɴ ʜᴇᴀʀ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ғɪɢʜᴛɪɴɢ. sᴏ ᴛᴀʟᴋɪɴɢ ᴛᴏ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴘᴀʀᴇɴᴛs ɪs ᴛʜᴇ ʙᴇsᴛ ᴛʜɪɴɢ.

ɪ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪᴛ's ʜᴀʀᴅ ʙᴜᴛ ʙᴇʟɪᴇᴠᴇ ᴍᴇ sᴛᴀʏɪɴɢ ᴀᴡᴀʏ ᴡɪʟʟ ᴋᴇᴇᴘ ʏᴏᴜ sᴀғᴇ ғʀᴏᴍ ɪɴᴠᴏʟᴠɪɴɢ ɪɴ ᴛʜᴇɪʀ ᴀʀɢᴜᴍᴇɴᴛs. sᴛᴀʏ ᴀᴡᴀʏ ᴛɪʟʟ ᴛʜᴇʏ ᴄᴀʟᴍᴇᴅ ᴅᴏᴡɴ ᴀɴᴅ ᴛʜᴇɴ ᴛᴇʟʟ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ʜᴏᴡ sᴛʀᴇssғᴜʟʟ ᴛʜᴇɪʀ ᴀʀɢᴜᴍᴇɴᴛs ᴀʀᴇ .

ɪғ ʏᴏᴜ ᴄᴀɴ'ᴛ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ᴛᴏ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ғᴀᴄᴇ ᴛᴏ ғᴀᴄᴇ ᴛᴇxᴛ ᴛʜᴇᴍ , ɪᴛ's ᴍᴜᴄʜ ᴇᴀsɪᴇʀ. ᴍᴀᴋᴇ sᴜʀᴇ ʏᴏᴜ ᴛᴇʟʟ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ᴡʜʏ ʏᴏᴜ'ʀᴇ ᴛᴇxᴛɪɴɢ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ғɪʀsᴛ.

ɪғ ʏᴏᴜ ᴄᴀɴ'ᴛ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ᴛᴏ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴘᴀʀᴇɴᴛs ᴛᴀʟᴋ ᴛᴏ sᴏᴍᴇᴏɴᴇ ᴇʟsᴇ , ʟɪᴋᴇ ʏᴏᴜʀ ɢʀᴀɴᴅᴍᴏᴛʜᴇʀ . ᴛᴇʟʟ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ʏᴏᴜ ɴᴇᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ sᴛᴜᴅʏ ᴀɴᴅ ᴛʜᴇɪʀ ᴀʀɢᴜᴍᴇɴᴛs ᴍᴀᴋᴇs ʏᴏᴜ sᴛʀᴇssᴇᴅ . ʏᴏᴜ ᴄᴀɴ ᴀsᴋ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ᴛᴏ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ᴛᴏ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴘᴀʀᴇɴᴛs ᴅɪʀᴇᴄᴛʟʏ ᴏʀ ʏᴏᴜ ᴄᴀɴ ᴀsᴋ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ғᴏʀ ᴀᴅᴠɪᴄᴇ.

ɪғ ʏᴏᴜ ᴀʀᴇ sᴜʀᴇ ɴᴏᴛʜɪɴɢ ʙᴀᴅ ᴡɪʟʟ ʜᴀᴘᴘᴇɴ ᴏʀ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴘᴀʀᴇɴᴛs ᴀʀᴇ ᴊᴜsᴛ ᴀʀɢᴜɪɴɢ ᴀɴᴅ ᴛʜᴇʏ ʙᴏᴛʜ ᴀʀᴇ sᴀғᴇ ᴀᴛ ʜᴏᴍᴇ ᴡɪᴛʜᴏᴜᴛ ʏᴏᴜ , ᴛʀʏ ɢᴏɪɴɢ ᴛᴏ ᴀ ʟɪʙʀᴀʀʏ ᴏʀ ᴀ ᴄᴀʟᴍ ʀᴏᴏᴍ , ʙᴀᴄᴋ ʏᴀʀᴅ ᴏʀ ᴡʜᴇʀᴇᴠᴇʀ ʏᴏᴜ ᴄᴀɴ sᴛᴜᴅʏ ᴡɪᴛʜᴏᴜᴛ ʜᴇᴀʀɪɴɢ ᴛʜᴇᴍ. ɪғ ʏᴏᴜ ᴄᴀɴ'ᴛ ʟᴇᴀᴠᴇ ʜᴏᴍᴇ ᴇᴀʀ-ʙᴜᴅs ᴄᴀɴ ʜᴇʟᴘ ʏᴏᴜ .

ɪғ ʏᴏᴜ ᴅᴏɴ'ᴛ ғᴇᴇʟ sᴀғᴇ ᴡʜᴇɴ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴘᴀʀᴇɴᴛs ᴀʀᴇ ғɪɢʜᴛɪɴɢ, ɪғ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴘᴀʀᴇɴᴛs ᴀʀᴇ ᴛʜʀᴇᴀᴛᴇɴɪɴɢ ᴇᴀᴄʜ ᴏᴛʜᴇʀ ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴘʜʏsɪᴄᴀʟ ᴠɪᴏʟᴇɴᴄᴇ, ᴏʀ ɪғ sᴏᴍᴇᴏɴᴇ ᴇʟsᴇ ɪs ɢᴇᴛᴛɪɴɢ ʜᴜʀᴛ, ɪᴛ's ᴠᴇʀʏ ɪᴍᴘᴏʀᴛᴀɴᴛ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ʏᴏᴜ ɢᴇᴛ ᴛᴏ ᴀ sᴀғᴇ ᴘʟᴀᴄᴇ

ᴄᴏɴᴛᴀᴄᴛ ᴀɴ ᴀᴅᴜʟᴛ ʏᴏᴜ ᴛʀᴜsᴛ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀsᴋ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ғᴏʀ ʜᴇʟᴘ. ɪғ ᴛʜᴇ ᴠɪᴏʟᴇɴᴄᴇ ɪs ʙᴀᴅ, ᴄᴀʟʟ ᴇᴍᴇʀɢᴇɴᴄʏ sᴇʀᴠɪᴄᴇs.

ᴘᴀʀᴇɴᴛs ғɪɢʜᴛ ᴀʙᴏᴜᴛ ᴅɪғғᴇʀᴇɴᴛ ᴛʜɪɴɢs ᴇᴠᴇɴ ɪғ ɪᴛ's sᴏᴍᴇᴛʜɪɴɢ ᴀʙᴏᴜᴛ ʏᴏᴜ (ғᴏʀ ᴇxᴀᴍᴘʟᴇ ʏᴏᴜ ᴀsᴋᴇᴅ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ᴛᴏ ᴘᴀʏ ғᴏʀ ʏᴏᴜʀ sᴄʜᴏᴏʟ ᴀɴᴅ ɴᴏᴡ ᴛʜᴇʏ'ʀᴇ ғɪɢʜᴛɪɴɢ ᴀʙᴏᴜᴛ ᴍᴏɴᴇʏ) ɪᴛ's ɴᴏᴛ ʏᴏᴜʀ ғᴀᴜʟᴛ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ᴛʜᴇʏ'ʀᴇ ғɪɢʜᴛɪɴɢ.

ᴅᴏɴ'ᴛ ʙʟᴀᴍᴇ ʏᴏᴜʀsᴇʟғ. ɪᴛ's ᴛʜᴇɪʀ ғᴀᴜʟᴛ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ᴄᴀɴ'ᴛ ʜᴀɴᴅʟᴇ ᴛʜɪs sɪᴛᴜᴀᴛɪᴏɴ.

ᴛʜᴇʏ ғɪɢʜᴛ ᴀʟʟ ᴅᴀʏ ʙᴜᴛ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ᴅᴏᴇsɴ'ᴛ ᴍᴇᴀɴ ᴛʜᴇʏ ᴀʀᴇ ɢᴇᴛᴛɪɴɢ ᴅɪᴠᴏʀᴄᴇ. ɪᴛ's ɴᴏʀᴍᴀʟ ғᴏʀ ᴘᴀʀᴇɴᴛs ᴛᴏ ᴀʀɢᴜᴇ . ᴛʜᴇɪʀ ᴀʀɢᴜᴍᴇɴᴛs ᴅᴏᴇsɴ'ᴛ ᴍᴇᴀɴ ᴛʜᴇʏ ᴅᴏɴ'ᴛ ʟᴏᴠᴇ ᴛʜᴇɪʀ ʟɪғᴇ ᴏʀ ᴇᴠᴇɴ ʏᴏᴜ

ᴛʜᴇʏ ᴍᴀʏ sᴀʏ " ɪ ʜᴀᴛᴇ ᴛʜɪs ʟɪғᴇ " ʙᴜᴛ ᴛʜᴇʏ ᴅᴏɴ'ᴛ ʀᴇᴀʟʟʏ ᴍᴇᴀɴ ɪᴛ. ᴛʜᴇʏ sᴛɪʟʟ ʟᴏᴠᴇ ʏᴏᴜ ᴀɴᴅ ɴᴏᴛʜɪɴɢ ᴄᴀɴ ᴄʜᴀɴɢᴇ ɪᴛ.

ɪғ ʏᴏᴜ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴀɴʏ ᴏʟᴅᴇʀ sɪʙʟɪɴɢ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ᴛᴏ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ᴀʙᴏᴜᴛ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴘᴀʀᴇɴᴛs , ʙᴇʟɪᴇᴠᴇ ᴍᴇ ɪᴛ ʀᴇᴀʟʟʏ ᴡᴏʀᴋs. ᴛᴇʟʟ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴘᴀʀᴇɴᴛs ᴀʀᴇ ᴍᴀᴋɪɴɢ ʏᴏᴜ ᴀɴxɪᴏᴜs ᴀɴᴅ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴏʟᴅᴇʀ sɪʙʟɪɴɢ ᴡɪʟʟ sᴜᴘᴘᴏʀᴛ ʏᴏᴜ. ᴛᴇʟʟ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ʏᴏᴜ'ʀᴇ ᴡᴏʀʀɪᴇᴅ ᴀʙᴏᴜᴛ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴘᴀʀᴇɴᴛs ɢᴇᴛᴛɪɴɢ ᴅɪᴠᴏʀᴄᴇᴅ ᴏʀ ʜᴜʀᴛɪɴɢ ᴇᴀᴄʜ ᴏᴛʜᴇʀ.

ɪғ ʏᴏᴜ ᴀʀᴇ ᴛʜᴇ ᴏʟᴅᴇʀ sɪʙʟɪɴɢ , sᴜᴘᴘᴏʀᴛ ʏᴏᴜʀ ʏᴏᴜɴɢᴇʀ sɪʙʟɪɴɢs ᴀɴᴅ ᴛᴇʟʟ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ᴇᴠᴇʀʏᴛʜɪɴɢ ᴡɪʟʟ ʙᴇ ᴀʟʀɪɢʜᴛ.

ᴛʜɪs ᴄᴏᴜʟᴅ ᴄᴀᴜsᴇ ᴛᴇɴsɪᴏɴ ᴏʀ ᴄᴏɴғʟɪᴄᴛ ʙᴇᴛᴡᴇᴇɴ ʏᴏᴜ ᴀɴᴅ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴘᴀʀᴇɴᴛs. ᴀɴᴅ ᴡᴇ ᴅᴏɴ'ᴛ ʀᴇᴀʟʟʏ ᴡᴀɴɴᴀ ᴡᴏʀʀʏ ᴀʙᴏᴜᴛ ᴏᴜʀ ʀᴇʟᴀᴛɪᴏɴsʜɪᴘ ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴏɴᴇ ᴏғ ᴏᴜʀ ᴘᴀʀᴇɴᴛs.

ʀᴇᴍᴇᴍʙᴇʀ ʏᴏᴜ'ʀᴇ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴅᴜʟᴛ ᴀɴᴅ sᴏ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴘᴀʀᴇɴᴛs ᴀʀᴇ. ɪᴛ's ɴᴏᴛ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴊᴏʙ ᴛᴏ ғɪx ᴛʜᴇɪʀ ʀᴇʟᴀᴛɪᴏɴsʜɪᴘ.

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Miju

Where was this when I needed it

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✧°. ʀᴇʏ .°✧ Author

It's here , hope you never need it in the future

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Sakura

This is good. But I think this lacked something. It's all about you(the child) I mean,just telling them that it makes me stressed has never worksed out even a little bit as then they wouldn't talk infront of us and it's more scary as I wouldn't be able to give them the (for example stop my mom crying by convincing her with the right words)as I don't know what happened and why did they fight,then she wouldn't feel better or convinced by my words and would just say" you don't know what happened,leave it". And that's so not right. I mean of course I gotta focus on my studies, but the thought of them fighiting is bad enough. So what I mean is,this blog is giving out the wrong message (in my opinion) to only move away and just care about studies,while your parents fight,it's none of your business.(the tips were all about that).

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Sakura

Reply to: [ R E Y ]

Yes. I am well-aware that you didn't mean that to not care but,it was giving of this message that's what I am saying otherwise the blog is great.Most importantly I know this is studying amino and your supposed to make blogs related to that but I was just sharing my opinion if it gets too worse then you shouldn't stress yourself to give priority to more studies as according to the time and situation you can't study that well if your parents are fighting(at least that's the case with me) and I think yeah your blog covered at least some of this too.I was just sharing my opinion that this,comes prior to studies,didn't mean to hate or anything. Peace :v: (blog was good)

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Sakura

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And no, I didn't mean it lacked help for "comforting them later on". I just mean that if for the sake of your exams, at that time if you don't get involved,it can cause great harm anytime in the future,to you and your whole family. (still,just sharing my opinion.)

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✧°. ʀᴇʏ .°✧ Author

Reply to: Sakura

Sometimes your exam is so big and so important that all you wanna do is to study ( like a university entrance exam that can change your whole life ).

Thanks for sharing your opinion :two_hearts: :two_hearts:

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Cαяoℓɪɴα

This post is gold. Thanks for spending time of your day to make it and help people. :sparkles:

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✧°. ʀᴇʏ .°✧ Author

Thank you for reading :two_hearts: :two_hearts:

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K_Studies

I would’ve needed this is the past a lot. And I still would need it now and sometime in the future. My mother keeps her and my dad’s relationship is secret from my dad’s side because they are snakes. They try to manipulate and make arguments between my parents because they are selfish of their relationship. Now whenever one of them calls, my mom is just like, “yeah we got into a fight again, I’m getting tired of it”. Some source is just not the parents, it could be the parents families too.

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✧°. ʀᴇʏ .°✧ Author

Just when you grow up never ever fight in front of your child ~~ cause we already know how bad they gonna feel

And also I hope your parents stop fighting one day (it sounds impossible but it's all I can say :worried: :worried: )

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✿°。 ANDREA ✿°。

This is an amazing post!Its also very unique! :cherry_blossom: :revolving_hearts: :sparkles:

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✧°. ʀᴇʏ .°✧ Author

Thank you :two_hearts: :two_hearts:

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