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poof

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this is a wiki	it doesn't have to be on topic dw
it's a rant	but I'd like to adress some things that make me uncomfortable
I also have some boundaries	that I'd like you to respect
I also want to clarify that being a curator	doesn't make me different from other BUT isn't an excuse for you to be weird or yell at me for no reason
thank you	🤍

Hello, I'm @poof (or Maia) and I would like to adress some things.

I've been receiving direct messages from people who want to talk to me just because I have a beautiful girl on my profile picture. I mean the creepy type of messages.

those dms make me feel very uncomfortable, as I simply am not interested in any type of non-platonic relationships right now. This is weird. I am not interested in dating you. I don't want to be your girlfriend. I already have a boyfriend.

It is not okay to be a creep.

and this isn't only my problem, it happens to lots of people on SA. Please this is not a dating community.

Second, I've noticed I am being misgendered. This isn't fine. Every time I change my profile picture to some guy, I am being called a "sir". I'm a woman and I'm not okay with people assuming my gender just from my profile picture (and calling me a "sir"). Please.

As for my boundaries, it's pretty much what I already said, but I will try to make it even more clear:

- I don't want to be sexualized

with anyone in any way,

- I am not interested in dating,

- I want you to respect my pronouns (she/her).

that's it. hope you have a nice day 🤍