Hey all, so this full moon and Valentines Day (week i did it on Wednesday night), I did a love Enhancing spell.
[ICU]Disclaimer before I go into how it went:
This spell's purpose is not to get someone to love you or have feelings for you. It is ONLY for relationships (or friendships) who may be going through a rough patch. It is for enhancing and bringing back what is ALREADY there. Throwing out the negatives and bringing back the positives.
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This spell was fairly simple. All I used was:
A pink candle
A white candle
Picture of me and SO together (preferably a happy one!)
Tarot cards
Sea salt
A bag/satchel to fit a few cards
Rose Quartz (optional)
❀This was not my spell originally, so I'm not gonna go through step by step how to. If you'd like to see the step by step how to, I'll link it Here
I started by making some elderberry tea, which is what I had on hand, and it's so good.
I then set up my candles with the picture and rose quartz in the middle of them. I lit the candles and started visualizing all the positive things in our relationship and what our future could look like if we can keep healthy communication open.
I felt so happy and at peace, feeling as though everything would be ok. Lady Hekate's candle was also burning and the flame was dancing, I felt like that was a good sign.
I picked out 3 cards that represented the things that are harming our relationship and placed them around the photo
Then meditated on all the negatives and imagined them being released
~~~While I did this part the pink candle flame started dancing a lot-like shooting way up then going down then way up again a few times- I personally saw this as the candle flame pushing the negativity out.~~~
Picked out my 3 positive cards, and replaced the negative with the positive saying you have no place here, be gone. --or something like that it was late at night-- visualizing the positives replacing the negatives in our relationship.
To finish up I shook my bag with the negative cards with sea salt until I felt it was done.
I sat and bathed in the love I felt for a moment just visualizing my intentions coming to life. I felt very good during and after this spell and I hope that me doing this helped.
Another Disclaimer:
~~~ This spell is not a fix all. It does not do all the work, you and your SO will still have to put in some of the work yourselves and help bring this into your life. I recommend telling your SO you are doing this and explain what it is and what it means and your intentions so that they are aware of what needs to be addressed.~~~
^I did what I said above and he was very understanding and ed me in doing this, and we talked the day after I did it and made a plan kinda as to what we were gonna do differently. Nothing changes if nothing changes.
Also don't forget if you want to see the original post I have it linked above and I'll go ahead and put it Here as well It really is a great post!
Hope everyone is having a great Valentines day!
♡ Blessed Be ♡
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Comments (3)
This is lovely and seems very potent! I know people often say you don’t need tools, ingredients etc to do the Craft, however I feel using pictures of those you want to cast on/for or yourself is such a powerful tool. I used a picture of someone in a spell once and results were near instantaneous compared to instances of other taglocks. :heartbeat:
I agree, this is the first time I've used a picture in my spell work and honestly I may have to make that a thing I do now. Especially for this one, as I was meditating and visualizing, it was nice to have a picture of us to gaze into.
Reply to: Phoenix_is_lost
Yes!!! I feel it really enhances the intention and visualisation aspects.